There have been many studies that have shown hearing loss negatively affects relationships. Hearing loss affects all aspects of relationships, from verbal communications to intimacy. If you or someone you are dating is deaf or hard-of-hearing this Valentine’s Day, there are a few strategies you can use for improved communication to make sure you have a great Valentines date.
Tips For The Person With Hearing Loss
Choosing The Right Venue
You know better than anyone about your hearing limitations. It is important to choose a venue where you can still clearly hear each other. For example, some restaurants have screens that block out the noise from other patrons to create a more intimate atmosphere. If you choose a smaller restaurant and sit near the back or in a booth, you are more likely to be able to hear each other better. However, if you struggle to hear people talking over simple background noise perhaps a romantic picnic at the local park or cooking dinner together at home may be the better option.
Communication Is Important
To ensure that you and your date have the best time possible you need to talk with your date and let them know if they need to slightly adjust the way they’re communicating. For example, you may need them to slow down when they talk or maybe you need them to swap seats so that they are on the side of your ‘good ear’. Don’t feel embarrassed about needing to ask your date to repeat themselves or clarify what they said.
Prepare Your Hearing Devices
Whether you need to wear a hearing aid or have implanted devices, it is important that your devices are ready for the big night. If hearing aids are your go-to devices make sure they are clean and the battery is charged.
Tips For Dating Someone With Hearing Loss
Communicate Clearly
Make sure to talk very clearly but do not be patronising by shouting or overexaggerating your words. Avoid speaking too quickly or mumbling. A lot of people who suffer from hearing loss have learnt to rely on lip-reading so avoid covering your mouth when you are speaking.
Be Prepared To Repeat Yourself
You may be asked multiple times to repeat yourself, if this happens do not become frustrated or brush them off. Saying phrases such as “never mind” when asked to repeat yourself can cause your date to feel self-conscious and make them withdraw.
The Little Things Count
If you are having a romantic night in you can make little changes to ensure your date feels as comfortable as possible. Depending on the severity of the hearing loss, make sure any music is either on a low setting or turned off completely. Also if you are planning to cuddle up on the couch turn on closed captions on your TV beforehand to keep them from missing important details.
If you are someone who struggles to hear and is suffering from hearing loss book an appointment today to get a hearing consultation with one of our expert audiologists.